What’s In Your Way?

I bet there are things or circumstances that you want for yourself that will improve your quality of life.  What separates you from them?

Can you identify the obstacles without blaming others or naming excuses?  If you can’t, then you attribute what you don’t have to that which is beyond your control, implying that you’ll never have what you want.

Now try looking at those hurdles more objectively.  Are there actually things that are within your control, things that you might be able to change?  Try to locate your power within you.

Sometimes FEAR is what holds us back.  Fear of the unknown, fear of the next step, fear of success because expectations might be higher thereafter.  Think about the possibilities that might exist if you were to face the fear.  Imagine what that experience might feel like!

How would you rate your level of commitment to getting what you want?  Are you willing to put forth the effort necessary to achieve your goals?  Remember that it’s best to approach things in bite size pieces.  Your commitment and motivation may falter if you bite off more than you can chew.

Do your obstacles include the messages you tell yourself?  By this, I mean things like “who do you think you are?!” or “you couldn’t possibly achieve that!”  Take a look at your inner dialogue and see if you can replace some of those self-defeating messages with more encouraging ones like “I deserve this as much as anybody” or “I will be proud of myself for trying, regardless of the end result.”  Often, WE are the ones standing in our own way.

Identifying your obstacles will help you develop the necessary strategies for surpassing them.  Be realistic and honest with yourself and figure out what YOU can do to overcome the hurdles that keep you stuck.  Find the strength within you to move yourself forward.  If you’re waiting for the perfect time, that time may never come.  How can you play a pivotal role in moving the mountains that stand before you?  Or what can you do to get around them?

If you’re interested in learning more about how to overcome obstacles and become unstuck, click here.  Simply naming our challenges can strip them of their power over us and decrease the feeling of overwhelm that many of us feel.  I wish you much success in moving past YOUR obstacles!

Warmly,  Laurie


Laurie Leinwand is a Professional Life Coach assisting clients with a variety of personal and professional life issues. Ideas 2 Action Life Coaching encompasses Laurie’s work as a life coach for women and men, career life coach and work-life balance coach.

Some of the topics of focus in her practice as a professional life coach are assisting and supporting individuals that are stay at home parents (stay at home moms and dads are constantly forced to adapt to their current circumstances as their children grow and change) as well as those returning to work. Laurie works with people reentering the workforce who are unsure of their direction and interested in cultivating professional development skills and support.

Laurie also provides personal development assistance with regard to powerful issues such as how to make a change in your life and finding fulfillment and your life purpose. In addition, she works with clients interested in learning how to say no and setting boundaries.

Ideas 2 Action Life Coaching is located in Randolph, NJ and services the surrounding communities of Morristown, Denville, Parsippany, Florham Park and Mountain Lakes, New Jersey, though much of her coaching is done on the phone and is accessible to clients worldwide.  Laurie is a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF) and the New Jersey Professional Coaches Association (NJPCA).

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