Reaching the Finish Line
Are you one of those people that start out on a mission full throttle and as you near the finish line your energy wanes, and that end result you’ve been working so hard for perpetually feels just beyond your reach?
Then what happens? Do you give up? Do you allow yourself to become distracted (or SEEK distraction)? Do you tell yourself it wasn’t meant to be?
I posted a quote on Facebook earlier this week that said, “If we did all the things we were capable of doing we would literally astonish ourselves.” Isn’t it true?! What amazing things we could accomplish if we didn’t stall just before completion!
So how do you follow through? How do you give yourself the opportunity to astonish on a regular basis?
There are a few things that might be happening as you near the completion of a goal.
1) You meet with greater resistance. – Things suddenly get harder and require more effort. You start to wonder if it’s “worth it” to go to all that trouble. You discount the importance of the original goal and modify it to meet your needs at the moment.
2) You are uncertain about what comes next. – The journey toward obtaining the goal has taken up lots of time and energy, and has dictated how you’ve operated the last long while. What do you do after completion? That “not-knowing” can be enough to cause you to slooooow the process down, take a step backward, or even unknowingly thwart it.
3) You fear maintaining the new normal. – Maintenance means subscribing to a new set of rules, which means there’s a limit to just sitting back, relaxing and enjoying. A different kind of effort has to be put forth, and if it isn’t, that new level of achievement is at risk of fading away. You sometimes sidestep your goals in order to avoid the loss you might feel if you are unable to maintain your results.
4) You are intimidated by having to meet a higher standard. – You can hesitate if you know that you’ll have to work even harder next time as you raise the bar once again.
5) You challenge your current view of yourself. – Astonishing yourself results in your being further defined by new accomplishments. This may feel at odds with how you’ve viewed yourself prior to that point.
- Go back to the beginning. – Take some time to reaffirm your commitment to your goal and why it was so important to you to begin with. Keep the completion of that goal and what it means to you in the forefront of your mind. You may want to post something (a picture representing its completion or an inspirational quote) in a place where you will see it on a regular basis so that you are constantly reminded to see it through and of the rewards that are in store for you.
- Surrender to the possibility that awaits you. – You might not know what comes next. However, chances are that the skills and determination that saw you through to this new destination are enough to take you even farther. Trust that you can handle what is around the bend.
- Enlist support in maintaining the new normal. – Chances are others will be excited about your progress and may very well want to be a part of it. Ask for, and invest in, help in keeping the momentum going.
- Be open to being astonished once again. – Take the opportunity to enjoy. You have a choice to keep reaching higher, or not, and you set the time frame for that.
- Imagine what it will be like to have already achieved your goal. – Try it on for size. Envision it in a way that is in alignment with the values that are most important to you. Reaching new levels of success does not need to challenge your view of yourself; allow it to enhance it.
You CAN reach what you now see as your finish line! And I bet you can surpass it in ways you may never have imagined!
Go ASTONISH yourself!
P.S. If you need some assistance with this, I encourage you to go here and sign up for a complimentary 30 minute strategy session with me so we can finally propel you toward your finish line in a powerful way. I look forward to hearing from you!
Laurie Leinwand is a Certified Life Coach assisting clients with a variety of personal and professional life issues. Ideas 2 Action Life Coaching encompasses Laurie’s work as a life coach for women and men, career life coach and work-life balance coach.
Laurie provides personal development assistance with regard to powerful issues such as how to make a change in your life and finding fulfillment and your life purpose. In addition, she works with clients interested in learning how to say no, setting limits and boundaries, as well as balancing work and life.
Ideas 2 Action Life Coaching is located in Randolph, NJ and services the surrounding communities of Morristown, Denville, Parsippany, Florham Park and Mountain Lakes, New Jersey, though much of her coaching is done on the phone and is accessible to clients worldwide.